Honestly, it doesn't seem that hard to add blacklists, even category based ones.

If stripe doesn’t want to participate (likely) their funds are reallocated. They also have the option to pass on funds to their dependencies

So users of Stripe SDK ends up donating to Stripe SDK that reallocates those funds to the dependencies that makes the Stripe SDK possible to build, rather than Stripe donating money directly to those dependencies that makes it possible for them to build their SDK?

I'd rather fund libraries that don't have huge companies behind them, and those companies should donate themselves to the dependencies they use, so I can spend my money on donating to libraries I depend on directly.